Well, if that line was used in the context I suspect (I don't do facebook, so I'll have to hope she crossposts to LJ), it's mostly talking about Nice Guys™ -- guys who never make a move, but do nice things in the hopes that the lady in question will recognize how nice they are, and then have sex with them. These same guys are often the ones complaining that only assholes get laid, and why does no one notice their niceness?
This is totally not you -- women find you interesting based on your own merits, and from my limited interaction with you at cons, you're genuinely nice, without the ™ sign. The guys who do nice things in hopes of earnilng barter credit? That's not nice. It's creepy.
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Date: 2012-09-29 04:20 am (UTC)This is totally not you -- women find you interesting based on your own merits, and from my limited interaction with you at cons, you're genuinely nice, without the ™ sign. The guys who do nice things in hopes of earnilng barter credit? That's not nice. It's creepy.