Puzzled

A friend of mine whom I thought was a devout lesbian, tells me she is now not sure if she likes women or men better. Her long-time SO not only dumped her but also ran off with credit cards, bank book and a lot of the stuff from their house.

In other words, the stab-in-the-back nature of the breakup has my friend confused about her gender.

I'm puzzled by this. Hetero men have this kind of betrayal happen to them all the time, but I've never heard of one becoming gay because of it. I don't know any gay men who have been betrayed quite this thoroughly, so I don't know about that angle.

Hubba Hubba

Now that I have given up on her, Noi mailed me a letter. Two letters, actually. One giving me her home address, and the other apologizing for not having mailed the first one sooner. Her handwriting is very small and scrunched, and between my poor Thai reading skills and lousy close-up eyesight, I'm not sure if I understood correctly, but I think she said she had not been feeling well, and then when she tried to get to the post office, it had closed early.

I don't see any mention in the letter about her coming to visit, which was the whole purpose of asking for her home address - so I could send her a money order to pay for her visa application. I'll have to find someone whose Thai is better to fill in the blanks for me.