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howard stateman ([personal profile] howeird) wrote2007-02-21 11:34 pm

A Question From The Socially Inept

I'll make this a public post because this is not about anyone you know.

A friend of a friend of mine  has been emailing me about her life & times for a couple of years, and I'm worried about a pattern of behavior I'm seeing in those messages, but don't know what to say or how to say it.

It's pretty simple:

She parties to get drunk. Falling-down drunk. She is neither embarrassed nor proud of this.

The friend who introduced us tells me the person in question is not an alcoholic, she drinks mostly non-alcoholic drinks, has a good work attendance record, and is pretty social. But when she parties she gets plastered.

She's a nice person, very talented and attractive. But I'm worried about her clobbering her body like that.

I don't know her that well, we're not An Item and never will be, so the question is do I even mention my concerns to her?

Feel free to comment. 

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