Um, some people don't like it. Some people are tops, some are bottoms, some are exhbitionists and some are deeply private. There is more gray area than a rest home parking lot.
Likewise, it's perfectly valid to be a polyamorous, or monogamous, but you probably shouldn't pair a poly and a monogamous person together in a relationship.
If howeird likes grabbing his SO's ass in public, then he probably shouldn't be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't like having their ass grabbed in public. :-)
I can understand the privacy issue, though more from the viewpoint of the person who has to see the ass grab than the couple who are engaging in it. I'm mostly a top, and have never had a problem with being the grabber or the grabee. Being the grabber fits the role, being the grabee makes the grabber subject to repercussions. ;-)
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