I can understand the privacy issue, though more from the viewpoint of the person who has to see the ass grab than the couple who are engaging in it. I'm mostly a top, and have never had a problem with being the grabber or the grabee. Being the grabber fits the role, being the grabee makes the grabber subject to repercussions. ;-)
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Date: 2008-05-30 06:22 pm (UTC)